I Miss You

Remember the post which you said that, when I get to Melbourne, there would be an

ExpLosIon of CrazY AweSOme FUN!!

True enough, there were a lot of fun throughout my stay here. The random times when we go out and the random stuff we do are pretty quite crazy and fun!! Haha..

The memories I have here would be something etched to my heart now and forever. Throughout this whole time, I've learned a lot. Of which, you've taught me pretty damn good lessons.

From directions to life lessons, you've guided me through the journey here. The journey being away from home and away from the comfort zone. Thank you very much, Cheryl.

Do you know that I started to miss you even when it was just minutes after you left? You really mean quite a lot to me.

I'm now doing things I don't usually do. But you know you would do it. I'm cutting my fruits to eat. Somehow, I just remember to eat them now. And guess what? The ice berg lettuce you left, I ate it pretty RAW. Plus, (oh my, please don't laugh), I'm listening to songs by Secondhand Serenade. But I only like some though. haha.

Oh well, just want to thank you once again for everything you've  done. Sorry if I've ever hurt you, and sorry for the times I may not be able to stand by you. I miss you.

for a hAppier life..

Got this from an email..i wont be forwarding the mail but i'll post it up here instead..

1. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day. And while you walk, smile.
2. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day..
3. Sleep for 7 hours.
4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
5. Play more games.
6. Read more books than you did in 2007.
7. Make time to practice meditation, yoga, and prayer. They provide us with daily fuel for our busy lives.
8. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
9. Dream more while you are awake.
10. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
11. Drink plenty of water.
12. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
13. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.
14. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
15. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
16. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
17. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
18. Smile and laugh more.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
20. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
21. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
22. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
23. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about. Don't compare your partner with others.
24. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
25. Forgive everyone for everything.
26. What other people think of you is none of your business.
27. GOD heals everything.
28. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
29. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.
30. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
31. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
32. The best is yet to come.
33. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
34. Do the right thing!
35. Call your family often.
36. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.
37. Each day give something good to others.
38. Don't over do. Keep your limits.
39. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it.
40. Please Forward this to everyone you care about.

Love, Lust & Infactuation

I recently found this while web-surfing.. (http://www.wikihow.com/Know-the-Difference-Between-Love%2C-Infatuation-and-Lust)

-Lasting relationships are those that are built on love - not infatuation or lust. Imagine the person you love in 50 years when they are old and fat. Would that change how you feel about them? If yes, then what you feel now is most likely lust/infatuation - not love.

-Give it some time. Love takes root slowly and grows with time. Infatuation grows into full bloom almost immediately.

-Keep in mind that "True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be and will not be." (Unknown)

jusT to spiCe up the blOg a liL...

my new red poodle. female and male. but the male one was just sold to someone. hopefully she'll breed and we'll get a family of the REDS! haha.

What’s wrong with the world?

I'm somehow feeling down now. The excessive workload from uni (be it a result of my procrastination), the people, the work (I'm jobless right now), the money and the beauty.

17 days ago, a friend who is my age just passed away. It was an accident. Not a normal accident, but an unusual one. I wasn't a close friend of his. But this makes me realize, and hit me hard, about how short life can be.

And not long after that, I heard that another friend of mine, his dad just passed away.

Life seems to be unpredictable. And with due respect to what Cheryl blogged in the earlier post, I have to say:

I'm SORRY.

Sorry to those around me, for every wrong thing that I've done, any words or actions that have made you felt uncomfortable or make you feel in any ways negative.

Sometimes I just don't know. What have I done wrong? And why do you treat me this way? I guess I don't mean to hurt you in any ways. And please don't be all sweet and nice if there is something you are really unhappy about me. Just let me know. I will change if it's my fault.

 

Next, I would like to say…

Thank you!!

Thank you to all of you, who had helped me in any ways. Be it in terms of giving advice, listening to me, helping me out with academics, or just being there for me. Especially you, Cheryl.

Cheryl, thanks for being there for me, even when you're miles and miles away. Thanks for standing by my side when I felt that there is just NO one by me. You had been a very very good friend. Selflessly, you stood up and helped me in many ways. Helping me to go through those emo times and all. I'm thankful, really I am. I just don't know how I can repay you. Also, thanks for being sincere and honest with me about everything. I really appreciate that cause you do know that not many people can do this.

To others, I would just like to say thank you to all of you. Just in case, anything were to happen to either me or you, which I hope it does not happen, touch wood. Haha.

Oh and on another note, I don't know why guys just like to come and emo to me about another girl. Meanwhile, they are flirting with me as well. What's their problem weih? Can some angels please bless these confused souls?

 

Life's unexpected..and full of surprises.

Life..

one thing no one can explain what exactly it is about.

a period of days?
a sequence of things you do?
a story pre written by Someone Above?
or just merely playing a role in the story?

well? no one can tell me the answer.

since we all dont know what life is about..

why dont we DEFINE life the way we WANT it?we create it the way we want, Design it and live it the way we want and make the MOST of it..

since i never know when my time comes, my time left in this game/story/play/, the number of years, months or even days left..

i wanna do ThiS:

for now,
Just want all you ppl out there to know i LOVe you all:) no matter how long ive not spoken to u, or if i had not spoken to u anymore in my life, or even if u think i have forgotten about u!
mainly here, SOokyen dear, this is OUR blog,..so i Just wanna Dedicate this to u babe...

really just want u to know that u've always been in my mind!!super missing u!!eventhough i might not have kept in touch with u as much as i thought i would (sorrieeee) , i just want u to know that i AM missing you HEAps.. :( i've pics of u n i pasted all over my wall here... just printed it out recently! havent even got the chance to webcam n show it to u yet!!

and babe, another thing, im REALLy SUPER glad n Excited for u to be HeRE!! i just caNT imagine how its GONNA be:)





ME + YOU + MELBOURNE = ExpLosIon of CrazY AweSOme FUN!!




however, for now, Just want u to know I NEVER once FORGET about u okay babe??

love ya lotsss!!
hope to talk to u sooon.



As for the otheer frIends of ours oUt there, im Pretty sUre sook yen wants you guys all to knoW that we love you all Heaps..n all the time.. we May sometimes do things that Hurt you, piSs you off, or EveN make u HAte us, WE TRULY APOLOGIZE now....and just want u all to know we love u all no matter what...


*appReciatE what u hAve rigHt now*
*tRy to LeaRn to ForGive and fOrget*
*stOp hating a PerSon if u do, LeArn to Love the Person again Even if He/She doeSnt know it*

(at leasT u will feel better n Not be the One regretting in the future:] )

oh ya sook yen deaR!

i missed out some stuffs in our equation up THere!!
here's an improved Reaction eQuation:

ME + YOU + MELBOURNE + StUDIES ===> ExpLosIon of CrazY AweSOme FUN! +StRess (by product of StUDIES)

I love them

i wish i can have a dozen of these...